TRUST ME, AT SOME POINT YOU WILL START TO LOSE INTERESTS IN “LOW QUALITY”

“Low Quality” – a phrase with a negative connotation, but will be the focal point of the article today. That is because I used to have to interact with lots of low-quality things when I was young.

In this article, I want to mention 3 low-quality things that I think everyone might have experienced when growing up. Those are:

• Poor quality belongings
• Poor quality jobs
• Poor quality relationships

Speaking of definition, I would say that “poor quality” means things that do not help your mental or physical life become healthier and better.

Poor quality belongings are the easiest to be pictured when reading this definition. A poor quality item will quickly be damaged then cost you a fortune and time to repair it or make you upset when it is broken right at the time when you need it. A low-quality item may not cost you too much when you first buy it, but you would have to unexpectedly pay more when replacing it or buying a new one over and over again. Instead of that, you can spend the same budget, to buy an expensive, but high-quality and long-lasting item, right?

A low-quality job in its definition is a job that is surrounded by a toxic working environment, a boss who never creates opportunities for employees to develop or raise their income, and colleagues who are often rebellious, and toxic while hanging around the office to gossip more than working. Or a job requires you to repeat the same thing every day that does not provide long-term growth nor improve your mindset, increase your skills, and your energy, or help build better relationships. Such jobs will cause you to wear away your mind, time, vitality, and even the frivolity or enthusiasm you should have experienced during your youth!

Low-quality relationships are those that gradually make you more self-deprecating, and regressive, later never have enough courage to open your heart to trust anyone, nor dare to improve yourself because you will always be pressured or scared of being bullied. They are also relationships that always cause you to be afraid, that you could never be yourself, never able to do what you like, or always make you feel like you are “out of energy” every time you interact with them.

There is more than just one type of relationship such as a romantic relationship, a co-worker relationship, a family relationship, a work relationship, a social relationship, etc. Nonetheless, I think that the three relationships that could make us fall into misery the easiest are: relationships with family, lovers, and colleagues.

A family relationship, which often is the base of your emotions, will determine your feelings, behaviours, and thoughts in most other relationships. If you pay attention, you will see those who are close, loved, and respected in their families, they also often have quite good social relationships. On the contrary, people with psychological trauma from childhood, or bad influence from family relationships, will often have bad relationships with other surrounding people.

That is not to say that everyone will be 100% the same. It is just that, children who are truly raised with love will often be taught to understand their worth, respect themselves, and have the confidence in communicating and interacting with people in life.

However, the cycle of “low quality” things in one’s life will not go on forever, my friend! There will be a time when the cycle is cut off when you are hurt, tripped, mature, and enlightened about many things in life enough to upgrade yourself to a higher level.
Believe me, there will be a time when you lose interest in stylish, but quickly damaged accessories. You will also learn how to separate and disconnect from relationships, and people who always be burdens that pull you down the quagmire of negativity, suffering, and low self-esteem. Then, one day, you will improve yourself, become a brighter version of yourself so that you can live the way you want, and dedicate yourself to the work you love!

Nonetheless, these things will always happen if you are willing to GIVE AN ENDING DECISION.

I know a girl who just turned 30 this year who is beautiful, talented, and loved by many people. Almost everyone who came into contact with or worked with her had a great impression of her because of her clever but honest and intelligent nature. However, about a year ago, she fell into a terrible stalemate when she failed at almost everything in her career, her family had problems, and she had to handle her brother’s debt. Along with that great pain was the breakup with her fiancé, then soon after found out that he already had a new relationship with another girl.

She once collapsed and cried her eyes out all day. She would hide in her rented room every day, tormented and worried about how to improve her life. However, you know what? The same girl, but a year after, had a completely different life. After deciding to leave the relationship with her ex, at the same time, she also decided to purge all other unnecessary relationships, focusing only on working and creating income.

In the end, fortunately, the girl met a great boss who could realise all her efforts and hard work, and decided to support her a lot in her work life. She put unlimited effort into working when she spent the daytime working on her business and the nighttime gaining knowledge to improve herself. Today, she has bought herself a car, moved out of her dilapidated old apartment, and is living in a brand-new luxury apartment.

That is it, my dear friend. When the girl made that decision, she had no idea her future would change so quickly after just one year of hard work and relentless efforts. Nonetheless, the important thing was that she had stopped becoming interested in the low-quality features that made her life miserable a year ago. She gave herself opportunities to create a new life, and walk onto a new chapter with wonderful and brilliant things that are worth more for her values!

My dear friend,
If you pay attention, you will see that in most of Truly Inspired’s articles, one thing I always guide readers to is: we all deserve better things in life! We both can! However, you would be required to stick with this – The Law of coming and going in human life.

Beautiful, positive things will come when you are ready to receive them. Nevertheless, before that, you have to first say goodbye to the previous, old, negative events, and send them off somewhere far away in the past.

If you decide to live better, you will become better.
If you decide to think more positively, you will become happier.
If you decide to live more joyfully, you will be at peace.
Say goodbye to all the bad, painful, and inner melancholy, my friend!

Trust me in saying there will come a time when you stop being interested in low-quality features in life. At that time, they would not have the opportunity to meet you anymore as you have become a new and better version than yesterday!

Just like the mechanism of the Law of attraction, if you consider yourself a flower, your behaviours, and thoughts will give off a fragrant aroma, which later helps attract a lot of beautiful bees to surround you.
I know you can do it!

Much love,
Truly Inspired®